{"id":1803,"date":"2009-09-11T18:22:41","date_gmt":"2009-09-11T18:22:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/?p=1803"},"modified":"2009-09-11T18:22:41","modified_gmt":"2009-09-11T18:22:41","slug":"seven_years_on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/index.php\/2009\/09\/11\/seven_years_on\/","title":{"rendered":"Seven Years On"},"content":{"rendered":"

[Ed. note:<\/b> As you may have surmised from the title, I actually wrote this entry a year ago, but I chickened out of publishing it at that time. I know my views on this subject are, shall we say, unorthodox, and given how charged the political air was last year because of the upcoming election, I just didn’t want to risk picking a fight. Nor did I want to callously offend or hurt the feelings of anyone whose emotions about the tragedy were still raw. I was thinking in particular of Brian Greenberg<\/a>, a Loyal Reader I’ve never met in the flesh but who, thanks to the magic of the Intertubes, I’ve come to consider a friend. I know Brian feels the wounds of 9\/11 far more keenly than I ever could, because he’s physically close to the place where it happened. He sees the altered New York skyline every day, whereas I have the luxury and comfort of distance.<\/p>\n

But even he notes in his thoughts today<\/a> that the country is finally moving on. And that, as much as anything, is what prompted me to dust off this old ramble and open it up to public view now. Because it no longer feels as inflammatory as it used to. Maybe that’s because we have a new president and a different subject now dominates the public discourse; maybe it’s simply one more year of hindsight. Or perhaps I’m misjudging the situation and I’m about to set off a rhetorical bomb. I hope not…]<\/p>\n

I wasn’t planning to write anything about the anniversary of 9\/11 because — frankly, and at great risk of sounding like a heartless bastard — it’s not something I think about much anymore. Seriously, I drove past a grassy field filled with American flags<\/a> this morning on my way to the train station and I actually had a moment where I thought to myself, “now what the hell is that<\/i> all about?” I had utterly forgotten what today was. I guess that means I’ve moved on, eh?<\/p>\n

The truth is, though, I never felt that connected to it to begin with. That’s not to say I felt nothing on that horrible day now seven years gone. I was shocked and horrified and scared, the same as everybody else. I live right below the approach lanes for Salt Lake International Airport — there are usually five planes stacked up in the distance to the south of my house, waiting to come in — and I remember how deeply unsettling the quiet was, how empty<\/i> the sky was, during those first few days when there was no air travel. But where so many of my fellow Americans seemed to almost immediately transmute whatever they were feeling into belligerence — an unquenchable anger and the need to hit someone back hard<\/i> — I felt only sorrow. For the dead, for our lost landmarks, and for the changes I knew would be coming. I’ve spent the last seven years feeling like a stranger in my own country, like something was wrong<\/i> with me, because I just didn’t seem to be experiencing the same emotions, or at least the same intensity of emotions, as everybody around me.<\/p>\n

Before I go any farther, let me state for the record that I mean no disrespect to anyone or their feelings or their losses. I don’t mean to diminish what anyone else felt or continues to feel as a result of 9\/11. And I sure as hell don’t want to offend anyone. I’m just talking about my<\/i> feelings, with the full knowledge that I am in an apparent minority on these matters.<\/p>\n

Now here’s where I piss off a whole bunch of my readers anyway, by admitting that I am deeply uncomfortable with the way our country handles this anniversary.<\/p>\n

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I think that seven years ago we all collectively went, to borrow one of my mother’s more colorful expressions, out of our rabbit-assed minds. We Americans had been so complacent, wrapped in our plush little cocoons of materialism and entertainment media, that we never imagined that something like that could happen to us<\/i>. We weren’t arrogant so much as oblivious. Sure, terrorism had afflicted just about every other nation on the planet, but not us. Because we’re so far away from all that nonsense, and because we’re so exceptional, you see. Except we’re not<\/i>, obviously. It was only a matter of time before we, too, joined the club of the terrorized. No, scratch that, because we already had<\/i> joined the club, well before 2001. We just hadn’t been thinking of those earlier hits in those terms because they weren’t that spectacular. The worst terrorist act on American soil prior to 9\/11 — the Oklahoma City bombing — was perpetrated by one of our own, and it and the earlier al Qaeda stuff — the first attack on the World Trade Center, or the bombing of the USS Cole<\/i> — was easily dismissed by most people as isolated acts by the occasional looney-toon. And then came the attack on the Twin Towers, so damn big<\/i> and scary<\/i> that we had no choice to pay attention.<\/p>\n

And we reacted in typical 21st Century American fashion, by completely over<\/i>reacting, in about a million different ways big and small. (I won’t go into all of our nation’s post-9\/11 actions that I think were completely wrong; what’s done is done, and anyway if you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you ought to have a pretty good idea of my politics.) In my opinion, we’re still<\/i> overreacting, every time the calendar page turns again to September. All those flags in the field this morning didn’t fill me with pride or remind me of the innocent dead. Instead, they struck me as uncomfortably distasteful and even a bit embarrassing, like that one great-aunt who breaks down in loud, theatrical sobbing at the funeral of someone she hasn’t seen in years. It’s all too much, you see, these over-the-top displays of patriotism and mourning, just another example of our society’s urge to do everything to excess, like the ridiculously overblown size of our McMansions and our Hummers and our waistlines. Like the way we all want to go on Jerry Springer<\/i> and Dr. Phil<\/i> and publicly confess our sins in the most histrionic way possible.<\/p>\n

You know, thinking about all this reminds me of a story. It also involves New York City, curiously enough… I visited my friend Robert there back in ’96, when he was a student at NYU. I spent a week or 10 days there, and for the first few days, I had a wonderful time. I never once worried or felt like a tiny little country mouse in the big city. Then one night, Robert and I were walking along, lost in conversation the same as always, when he suddenly grabbed me by the wrist and pulled me across the street — in the middle of the block, mind you, and in front of traffic, too; I had my first Ratso Rizzo “I’m walkin’ heah!” moment just then — while loudly proclaiming, “we forgot that one thing, we’d better go back and get it.” Upon reaching the other side of the street, we started walking back the other direction.<\/p>\n

After a block or two, I finally got him to tell me what the hell was going on: he said he’d noticed some dude had been following us for a long while, walking just abaft our peripheral vision, and he — Robert — had decided it might be a good idea to evade the guy, because you never could tell.<\/p>\n

Well, that was pretty much the end of my good time in New York. I was utterly and completely paranoid from that point forward, and, me being me, I managed to turn that fear into a healthy dose of self-loathing.<\/p>\n

A couple days later, we were on the subway and Robert made a crack about “pussy tourists.” I’m told I’ve got a very expressive face and I must’ve looked hurt or something, because he immediately asked what was wrong. I told him I didn’t appreciate the remark because I<\/i> was a pussy tourist. He was shocked and asked me why I felt that way, because he<\/i> certainly didn’t think of me that way. So I told him how scared I’d been feeling since the near-mugging. I admitted I felt like a damn fool for not detecting any hint of trouble and that if the guy had<\/i> jumped us, I was certain I’d’ve simply wet myself. I’d been dwelling on what I would’ve done, could’ve done, should’ve<\/i> done differently. As we talked, I gradually realized that what had been really bothering me about the whole incident wasn’t the possibility that we’d been in real danger, but the way I’d reacted to that possibility. I was hating myself for being so damn scared. As Robert memorably put it, I wished I’d “been a little more cool about it.”<\/p>\n

Well, I guess that’s how I feel about 9\/11. I wish my country had been more cool about what happened, and not given into fear and hysterics. I’m not saying we shouldn’t have fought back, or that we shouldn’t acknowledge the anniversary of the attacks. But I wish we’d been then — and could be now — a little more rational, and a little more tastefully subtle, in how we choose to acknowledge it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

[Ed. note: As you may have surmised from the title, I actually wrote this entry a year ago, but I chickened out of publishing it at that time. I know my views on this subject are, shall we say, unorthodox, and given how charged the political air was last year because of the upcoming election, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1803","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-politics"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1803","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1803"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1803\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1803"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1803"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jasonbennion.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1803"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}