This Will Be a Day Long Remembered


I’ve been trying to think all day of what I can say about this morning’s historic Supreme Court ruling that effectively legalizes same-sex marriage across the nation, and frankly… I’ve got nothing. At least nothing that others haven’t already said, and probably said better than I would anyhow.

I know there are many people who are unhappy about the verdict. Many people I consider friends are among them, and maybe a few of them actually made it past the photo at the top of the entry and are reading these words. To you, my religious conservative friends, all I can say is that I understand your bewilderment, your frustration, and your anger… and I’m sorry you’ve had such a shitty day. Sincerely, I am. I’ve been there too with issues I care deeply about that haven’t gone the way I hoped. But I know in my heart and in my mind that history will view this as a good decision, and a good day. A day that reaffirmed the first and most basic tenet behind the founding of this nation: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all Men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness.

What is more central to the pursuit of happiness than the freedom to marry the person with whom you want to build a life, and to have that union recognized by the same laws that validate and protect any other person’s union? That’s what this whole issue is and always has been about… not forcing churches to perform ceremonies they don’t approve of, but to ensure that everyone enjoys the same privileges and protections under the law, no matter whom they love.

People who say this country is going to hell in a hand-basket are wrong. This country just took a big step toward fulfilling the promise of what it’s supposed to be.


One comment on “This Will Be a Day Long Remembered

  1. Jaquandor

    I guess you’re a better person than I am, because I feel zero sympathy for the right in this country. Their karma is so overdue it’s astonishing, and I have seen almost no rhetoric from anyone on the right that is in the least bit introspective or questioning of their basic assumptions. Instead I see a lot of doubling down, continued bleating about how God will destroy us all, and so on. Their Presidential candidates haven’t even managed to sound measured, but now I hear some folks concern-trolling the left for its tone in the wake of a stunning and overdue victory. The hell with them. If they’re having an awful day, it’s by their own choice.